Bringing Out Your Best Behavior

We've all heard the phrase "be on your best behavior," especially before a big event or meeting someone new. But what exactly does it mean? It goes beyond simply following a set of rules. Being on your best behavior is about being mindful of the situation and the people around you, and acting in a way that is respectful, considerate, and leaves a positive impression.

We’ve Heard This Many Times

While growing up, and even in adulthood, there are many expressions used in regards to our best behavior. Do any of these sound familiar?

Act politely
Mind your manners
Make good choices
Mind your p’s and q’s
Play fair
Observe the rules
Tow the line
Keep the peace
Act reasonably
Do the right thing
Be nice and kind
Be on your best behavior
Observe the Golden Rule
Act with decorum

These reminders have been heard throughout our lives on various occasions. Not only are they traditional phrases, they are also instructions for behaving well.

The Bottom Line of Best Behavior

As you can see from the list above, there are many perceptions of being on your best behavior. If we condense them and apply them to most circumstances, the list might look like this:

Mind your manners. This includes using polite greetings, saying please and thank you, and avoiding interrupting others.
Be respectful of others' space and belongings. Take care not to damage furniture, borrow things without asking, and always put things back where you found them.
Keep your voice down and avoid disruptive noises. This is especially important in quiet settings like libraries or restaurants.
Be positive and enthusiastic. A smile and a can-do attitude go a long way.
Be mindful of your body language. Avoid slouching, crossed arms, or fidgeting, which can come across as bored or disinterested.

Being on your best behavior isn't about being fake or inauthentic. It's about presenting yourself in a way that shows respect for others and the situation. It's about putting your best foot forward and mindfully creating a positive interaction.

Examples of this in specific context might be:

At a job interview: Dress professionally, arrive early, and be prepared to answer questions about your skills and experience.
Meeting someone new: Make eye contact, introduce yourself with a firm handshake, and be an active listener.
At a formal event: Follow the dress code, be mindful of table manners, and avoid bringing up controversial topics.

Behaving well, or acting in a manner of kindness, courtesy and respect, flies under the radar of noticeable actions. It is assumed that everyone aims for good rapport and harmony with each other in every circumstance, as the above examples show.

Of course, everyone has off days. But by making a conscious effort to be on your best behavior, you can make a positive impact on those around you and navigate different situations with confidence. Remember, good manners never go out of style!